Judgement

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Writing with AI without letting it write for me

This blog is written with the help of artificial intelligence. I say so, and I also explain what I try never to hand over to it: the idea, the structure, the tone, what I’ve lived …

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Learning to lose without falling apart

I’ve lost as a player, as a coach, as a parent in the stands and as a professional. Each role has taught me something different about defeat. Above all, that losing well doesn’t …

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How I form my own judgement (and try not to confuse it with having an opinion)

Having an opinion is easy. Developing sound judgement takes considerably more work. This is my imperfect, provisional way of trying to tell one from the other.

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I have a master's degree in buying tools to save time... but the best tool is still you

Between open tabs, prompts, automations and small optimisation habits, I keep learning the same thing: the most important tool is not the tool.

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Balance is not stability: what the equinox reminds me

The equinox lasts seconds. Balance is not permanent — it is transition.

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Clarity as a competitive advantage

In a noisy world, clarity isn’t aesthetic. It’s strategy.

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Not everything deserves a response (not in life, not on Google)

Answering everything isn’t strategy. In life and in SEO, choosing what not to answer is also judgement.

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How to lead without taking up too much space

Leadership isn’t always about speaking louder or deciding faster. Sometimes it’s knowing when to step back.

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The muscle of ignoring: why choosing what not to know saves my time and headspace

Not everything deserves our attention. Choosing what not to know is also a form of intelligence.

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What singing teaches me: breathing before acting

Singing has taught me something that goes far beyond music: pause, breathe, and don’t act too soon.