Judgement

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Celebrating without excess (and without guilt)

A reflection on enjoying yourself without overdoing it and without needing to justify it afterwards. Celebration as part of a well-lived life.

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How we talk about effort at home (without turning it into moralising)

A reflection on how to talk about effort without epic narratives or guilt, and without turning it into a burden instead of a tool.

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The importance of explaining well: writing for humans, not for algorithms

Explaining well is not a talent, it’s a craft. And in an algorithmic world, it remains a deeply human advantage.

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The best conversations don’t need urgency

A reflection on conversations that don’t try to get anywhere — and, because of that, go further.

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Competing without comparing: what I try to pass on to my daughters

A reflection on pursuing excellence without anxiety, learning from others without constantly measuring ourselves against them.

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My system for learning a technology without burning out

Learning technology shouldn’t feel like an endless race. This is the system I use to learn without anxiety, without noise, and without ending up hating what I enjoy.

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The value of lingering at the table: where the best ideas happen

Some ideas don’t show up in meetings or docs. They show up when the pace slows down and trust goes up: after the meal.

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The mistake of outsourcing your judgement to AI (and how to avoid it)

AI helps, accelerates and amplifies… but it does not decide for you. Here’s the system I use to avoid outsourcing my judgement to tools that are brilliant at predicting words, not …

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The information diet in 2026 (and why I’m simplifying it)

In a world where information is infinite, the real challenge is no longer access, but deciding what to ignore.

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The car ride after the game

Sometimes, the most important moment doesn’t happen during the game, but right after. On the drive home.