Recent posts

Latest posts from my blog (as you can tell, I don’t write much)

The family rituals we didn’t know we were creating featured image

The family rituals we didn’t know we were creating

Small gestures, repeated without intention, that over time become shared identity.

What singing teaches me: breathing before acting featured image

What singing teaches me: breathing before acting

Singing has taught me something that goes far beyond music: pause, breathe, and don’t act too soon.

Celebrating without excess (and without guilt) featured image

Celebrating without excess (and without guilt)

A reflection on enjoying yourself without overdoing it and without needing to justify it afterwards. Celebration as part of a well-lived life.

How we talk about effort at home (without turning it into moralising) featured image

How we talk about effort at home (without turning it into moralising)

A reflection on how to talk about effort without epic narratives or guilt, and without turning it into a burden instead of a tool.

The importance of explaining well: writing for humans, not for algorithms featured image

The importance of explaining well: writing for humans, not for algorithms

Explaining well is not a talent, it’s a craft. And in an algorithmic world, it remains a deeply human advantage.

The best conversations don’t need urgency featured image

The best conversations don’t need urgency

A reflection on conversations that don’t try to get anywhere — and, because of that, go further.

Competing without comparing: what I try to pass on to my daughters featured image

Competing without comparing: what I try to pass on to my daughters

A reflection on pursuing excellence without anxiety, learning from others without constantly measuring ourselves against them.

My system for learning a technology without burning out featured image

My system for learning a technology without burning out

Learning technology shouldn’t feel like an endless race. This is the system I use to learn without anxiety, without noise, and without ending up hating what I enjoy.

The value of lingering at the table: where the best ideas happen featured image

The value of lingering at the table: where the best ideas happen

Some ideas don’t show up in meetings or docs. They show up when the pace slows down and trust goes up: after the meal.

The Value of the Extra Pass: When the Collective Outperforms the Individual featured image

The Value of the Extra Pass: When the Collective Outperforms the Individual

The extra pass isn’t about sports: it’s about learning to give space, to trust, and to understand when adding means doing better, not doing more.